These Are The 4 Signs Of Emotional Attraction From A Man You Must Know About
As women, we don’t always know that men are thinking – sometimes we even wonder about what we’re thinking as well. If we’re honest with ourselves, “Does he even like me?” is probably near the top of the list when you first meet someone and feel the initial physical or emotional attraction. Understanding whether he really like you or not can be crucial in starting a relationship. Here I’ll be going through some signs of emotional attraction from a man that will help you when starting, or trying to start, a new relationship.
At the end of the day, you really need to learn and understand the signs of emotional attraction. I’m sure you probably even talk about it with your girlfriends from time to time. What you need is information that will help you nail down those signs.
Whatever you do, don’t become trapped in the looping thought process of “Does he like me?” This is not helpful, and can ultimately be destructive in starting a new relationship.
1. He’s Happy Just Hanging Out With You
Okay, lets get one of the most obvious signs out of the way first. The simple fact that he wants to spend time with you should be your first aha moment. Girls, let’s be honest with ourselves for a moment. If a man is only interested in sex, he’s not going to be around for long. As soon as he’s gotten what he’s after (sexual gratification in this case), he’s going to move on.
I know it may sound harsh, but sometimes truth needs to be harsh to help lead us to better understanding. And you know as well as I do, that he’s not going to linger and want to be with you if he believes the possibility of sex isn’t in the cards.
So now, take a bit of time to look at the man who does want to hang out with you. Many times there will be some subtle signs of an emotional attraction, but often it’s shown by just wanting to be with you. He may ask you to go see a movie, or even go to an event you’d never think of – like going to a get together with his friends.
A man like this will often not even ask for sex. He simply enjoys your company and wants to spend time with you.
2. He Wants To Talk With You On The Phone (Or Text With You) For Hours
One thing you’ll learn about most men, if you don’t already, is that they despise talking on the phone. Most are men of few words. They believe that their actions speak louder than their words. There are always exceptions, and this can be the case here as well. I’ve know a few men that were so chatty, you couldn’t get in a word edgewise.
In general, men aren’t going to strike up a conversation with anyone that goes on for hours, if they don’t enjoy their company.
With this in mind, if a man is willing to spend time on the phone, or actively converse with you by text, Facebook, or IM, then yeah, you’d better believe that he’s into you.
When a man calls one of his buddies, or a sexual partner, he’s not going to spend hours with them just chatting.
In most cases, you can be assured that there is some emotional attraction there – even if he doesn’t realize it yet.
3. He’s Always Putting You First
Alright, get get this out there. If you’re seeing a man and he’s only interested in sex, he’s going to be thinking only of himself almost 100% of the time. It’s a given, after all, he’s only there for one thing.
Everything that he does will be a move with that end in mind. In cases like this, he won’t let you chose where to eat, what movie to go see, or offer any meaningful input on things you’d like to do.
This is why a sure sign of emotional attraction in a man if being attentive to your needs, wants, and desires. Why? Well, it forces him into a situation where he MUST think about someone other than himself. And hey, it’s you!
Here are a few ways you can tell whether he’s putting you first or not.
- He lets you chose the date night experience
- He always lets you chose the restaurant
- He always comes over to pick you up at home instead of just meeting you there
- He puts your feelings first, not his
4. He Introduces You To Family And Friends
Okay, you may not know it, but this is a BIGGIE!
If you’ve been dating a few months and you realize that you haven’t met his family and friends, this is a sure sign of how he really feels about you.
A man that’s emotionally attracted to you wants to tell EVERYONE just how great you really are. Even more, everyone that he sees on a daily basis is probably sick to death of hearing about it because he just can’t shut up about you.
Once you’ve gotten to this point, congratulations, this is pure emotional attraction.
Remember, if he doesn’t give you a second thought once you’re out of sight, he won’t be able to connect with you on an emotional level.
A man that’s attracted to you emotionally will be knocking down your door to see you every chance he gets. He’ll be interested in the things in your life – your work, your hobbies, what makes you tick.
Once you’ve found this man, congratulations – you’ve got one of the good ones.